Photo via Flickr user timlewisnm. I remember the first time I actively, unambiguously tongued the anus of a man. My boyfriend, a muscly manly man, hot from the shower and dewy with steam, flopped on the bed. The skin over his ass was plump and invitingly pink-white; I had to put my mouth on it. My tongue, flat as a trowel, cleaved to his asshole. In the parlance of the time, I "rimmed" him, and he liked it.
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Literally, I'm referring to the man's most precious posterior pucker, and not figuratively to his piss-poor personality trait. For those of you who get an instant hard-on at the thought of me sucking on your starfish, I should note that I'm not into licking just any person's anus. It's got to be attached to a guy I like, who has recently showered and smells like there's a bar of Irish Spring soap up his ass. The act of analingus, commonly referred to as 'rimming,' or 'tossing the salad,' involves contact between the mouth, lips or tongue of one person, and the anus or perineum space between the ass and genitals of another. It is practiced privately by all sexual orientations and genders, but some still consider it to be taboo, dirty or even homoerotic, so it's rarely discussed openly or admitted to in public.
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It is also called anal—oral contact and anal—oral sex ; colloquial names include rimming , rim job , or tossing the salad. It may be performed by and on persons of any sexual orientation for pleasure or as a form of erotic humiliation. Health risks include fecal—oral transmission of diseases. The term anilingus entered English through the F.